The Life of a Victorian Actress

The article below is one I recently published on my writing website at RosamundeBott.com – but I thought it would be of interest to anyone with theatrical ancestors too! 

The novel I am currently working on, and which should be out in autumn, is set in the theatre world of the 1830s to 1850s, and tells the story of my fictional character, Isobel Brite, a shoemaker’s daughter who leaves the restrictions of her ordinary life to join the theatre, where she finds a freedom as an actress that the vast majority of women of the time would never experience.  There will, of course, be many challenges for my heroine to face, and I’m not going to give away any spoilers here!  However, as a little taster of the kinds of themes I explore in my novel, I thought I’d write a bit about what it was like to be a Victorian actress.

Victorian actress
Scene from “The Princess”, The Olympic Theatre 1870

In a time when women were more or less the property of men, actresses, and other female entertainers, had a rather unique place in society.  Following a ‘profession’, the kind of career choice that was barred to most women, gave the actress an autonomy that has more similarities to a woman of the late 20th century than those of her own age.

While this sounds like rather a pleasant position to be in, it was, of course, a bit of a double-edged sword.  To many people who lived within the social mores of the period, the actress was a monstrosity.  They threatened the general beliefs about female capabilities, which were that women were unable to work in any job that required physical, intelligent or creative activity, which were seen as the masculine domain.  Acting demanded all three of these, and in the twisted logic of Victorian values, therefore, these women were not truly women, but a kind of curious inhuman being whose morals were not to be trusted.

It is not surprising, therefore, that the word ‘actress’ was often synonymous with the word ‘prostitute’.   Some of those men who went to see their favourite actress on the stage either viewed her as some kind of mystical goddess, or as a person of easy virtue who they might fraternise with in a slightly more dignified way than a visit to the local whorehouse.

Because of her lifestyle, an actress was not seen, by the outside world at least, as a fit person to be a wife and mother, and so if an actress married, she was often expected to leave the stage behind her completely in order to lead a respectable life.  Astonishingly, this was not always limited to marriages outside of the business.  During my research I have read accounts of actors who expected their actress wife to give up the theatre.  The American actor, George Parks, threw himself into the river and drowned himself when his actress wife refused to give up her career.  This was probably an exceptional case, however.  In one travelling theatre company in the Midlands (where I have my heroine learn her trade), most of the acting company were children of the management, married to other actors in the company.

Victorian actress
Fanny Kemble

While I am sure that there were many actresses who did deserve the reputation they had, I think that, on the whole, the belief that actresses had extremely low morals was an erroneous one.   Many may have had affairs (e.g. Ellen Ternan who had a long-standing affair with Charles Dickens), or co-habited without marriage, but these situations are far (in our 21st century eyes at least) from prostitution.  But I think many did lead quite virtuous lives.  One of the books I have been reading as part of my research is the diaries of Fanny Kemble, a member of one of the best known acting families of the early 19th century.  She is an example of a truly intelligent, sensible and thoughtful woman who also wrote plays (another activity usually confined to men), and there is no hint of any scandalous behaviour!  She did give up the stage when she married, and later campaigned against slavery America where her husband owned plantations.  After her marriage ended (rather inevitably) she returned to the stage.

If you were happy to be single, or marry within the business, and were tough enough to ignore the views of those who might consider you no more than a prostitute, then there was the challenge of earning enough money to be comfortable.  For the provincial actress, touring in a traveling theatre company in the early days of the 19th century, this could be tough, but you had the companionship of your fellow actors as you travelled by foot from theatre to theatre, and the occasional benefit night, where the profits were given to the actor or actress whose benefit night it was, would often help see you through difficult times.  In these companies you would also be expected to muck in with setting up the scenery, making your own costumes and other practical matters, as well as being an all-rounder: singing and dancing would be part of your repertoire.

If you were lucky enough to find work in one of the big London theatres, then your salary could be extremely good for the times, especially if you were the leading actress.  An actress at the Haymarket Theatre, one of the major London theatres in the 1850s, could bring in £20-25 a week.   But for most jobbing actors and actresses the wages were much less than that, and could be as low as £2 – still well above the national average.   For all actors, whether male or female, the career was a precarious one – as it always has been – and once you fell out of favour, it could be a slippery slope to poverty and obscurity.  While there were some theatrical charities that could offer some help, there was no welfare state or national insurance, and no doubt many ended up in the workhouse.

Still, despite all of the above, I think the life of a Victorian actress was often an enjoyable and interesting one, as long as you were not too keen on being a wife and/or mother, and as long as you could shrug off the way the world saw you, and as long as you could stay in work and earn enough money to keep you comfortable in your old age.

Life on the stage for a woman was certainly not for the faint-hearted.  But for many it provided an alternative to the restrictions of ‘normal’ Victorian life, and it provided a vehicle for self-expression that most women were not allowed.

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4 Responses to The Life of a Victorian Actress

  1. Diana Dunkley says:

    Thank you .. I found this piece very interesting. I have been learning about my ancestors who were actors in the 19th/ early 20th century. Their name was Stalman. Julia Stalman married Walter Lacy’s son, Sidney and her cousin was Alfred Harding Stalman aka A Harding Steerman. Nobody in the family mentioned them… it wasn’t until my father and I subscribed to Ancestry that we found out about this
    Fascinating family of actors and theatre managers. I shall look out for your book.

  2. Ros says:

    Hi Diana. Thank you so much for posting this. That is wonderful news. Acting families are fascinating – and led a very different life to the rest of society.
    I should have included a link to my book in the post (I will have to amend this!) – but here’s the link where you can buy either the Kindle or paperback version: https://amzn.to/3dPl9ss I think you’ll find it interesting, as it concerns both provincial actors at the beginning, and then later the London theatres – so I hope you might find the background information personally interesting – as well as enjoying the story!
    Best wishes
    Ros

  3. Jillian Wilson says:

    I have just bought a kindle copy of this book. The only type available in Australia. My Mother often regailed us with stories of her Father (“Born in a trunk’) and his parents, who worked in the Music Halls in mid to late 1800’s. Father was an Irish Clog dancer. His father reputedly a Shakespearean Actor, listed on census as Comedien, which I found did not always mean a funny man but actor in lower grade or provincial theatres. His mother was an Opera singer who did have a lovely voice inherited by her first daughter.
    I take all this grandeur with a pinch of salt but nonetheless am intrigued to find out if there is any truth behind the stories. Being minor actors, if indeed they ever were because they had a sideline as Ghost Catchers too, they were not famous. I have been trying for more than 30 years to find any scrap of information. As a writer of historical novels I wondered if you could advise me where I might make a start? I found nothing some years ago but a lot more is available on line now. I have been searching again and that is how I found you. If you can help me make a start on where to go for this information, which might not even exist but I’d like to try, I would be extremely grateful. I mentioned no names as I am not asking you to do the work for me. Not even sure they used their own or stage names! Thank you. Jill.

  4. Ros says:

    Hi Jillian

    Many thanks for your post – that’s all very interesting – and I hope you enjoy the book!

    To start with, I would suggest following the family through all the census records back to 1841, if you haven’t done so already. As well as hopefully getting more specific occupations (and – yes, ‘comedian’ was often synonymous with ‘actor’), this might help to follow where they were working, and whether they were itinerant or mainly in one place. The birth places of any children on these records will also give you an idea of how much they may have travelled.

    The Victoria & Albert Museum now holds the collections that used to belong to the Theatre Museum (sadly no longer in existence), and I believe you can carry out person searches at their website: https://www.vam.ac.uk/collections/theatre-performance

    I would also suggest that you carry out searches for your ancestors at the National Archives online catalogue:https://discovery.nationalarchives.gov.uk/advanced-search This will search not only collections at the National Archives at Kew, but documents held at archives across the country.

    Also, if you have any idea which theatres or music halls they played at, you could search for theatre posters in the local archives for the theatre in question. If they are named on the posters, you might get an idea of parts they played, or how well known (or not) they were by where and how they are placed.

    As for books, I give a list of the books I used for research at the end of the novel. If you can find these (one or two of them may not be in print now), they will give you a good idea of the life of actors, musicians and music hall artistes.

    I hope this helps. Do let me know how you get on – and if you have any further questions, please do email me at info@tracingancestors-uk.com.

    Best wishes – and good luck!
    Ros

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